Book Review TOO MUCH STUFF



Too Much stuff
by Kathryn Porter

Well this book was a real eye opener for me. So much of what I have read before on this subject talked about being born a certain way; organized, messy, etc. Now I see that all those labels are just excuses for the way we act.

The book is set up for general reading or a group study format with questions at the end of the book for each chapter to learn more and for reflection.

Not once during the reading of Porter’s book did I feel shameful, beat up or paralyzed. It’s easy to be overwhelmed when reading a book on the topic of clutter, but Too Much Stuff made me look at my “stuff” in a whole new light. No Rough Tote or Sterelite container was ever going to solve my clutter problem! Our 12 year old son went through the book with me. Unfortunately he has picked up my clutter habit over the years. Reading the book together has been a turning point for both of us . My son would give a shout out at the start of each chapter as to who had what clutter issue, him or me. We use to love to go to yard sales, now every time we pass by one he yells out

“CLUTTER SALE!” Once while we were traveling we saw a really neat looking shed with collectibles and such for sale. We both wanted to go in and look around, but he said “Mom, I really want to go in there, but I think that place is full of clutter!”

A quote from the book that has stuck with me is, “But this is why: when you cling to your possessions, you hoard your heart from others. You bury it in the stuff around you. Loved ones believe the stuff is more important to you than they are. They wish you could love them as much as you love the clutter.” WOW! That statement says so much.

Thanks to Kathryn Porter and Too Much Stuff, my son and I are now official CLUTTER Warriors. We still struggle with “Drop it” and “Leave it,” but it’s coming along.

Too Much Stuff will help you to answer some of life’s nagging questions such as:

“Can I get rid of gifts that loved ones give me?” “How do I get paper clutter under control?” “What collections can I keep?” “Why can’t I keep a clean house?”

“How can I get beyond the saboteurs?”

Check out Kathryn Porter’s book Too Much Stuff: Winning the War Against Clutter

published by Beacon Hill Press.

As a side note here, my son and I were able to toss out, give away and sell more than 30 bags of our clutter!! We have a way to go, but it’s been a very freeing experience. The hardest part of all of this was letting go of cards and letters from loved ones. I finally tossed out all the condolence cards that were sent to my parents upon the death of my sister Coreen 43 years ago. I was a toddler when she died suddenly and for me those cards were the only tie I had left to her. But really what were they doing for me? Nothing but taking up space. For my son, it was gifts. He kept every little thing that was given to him, for fear of offending the giver if they asked him about the gift. He even kept little trinket items. He is learning that if someone gives you a gift, you can do whatever you please with it. If you can’t use it, then pass it on to someone who can be blessed by it. It’s a daily struggle for both of us, especially walking in the door from a long day and just doing the “Drop it” and “Leave it” cycle.

I hope that you will be blessed by reading this book and I would love to hear how you have grown through reading the pages of Too Much Stuff.
Moe

I received a copy of this book from the author in order to write the review.

What have I been up to?



Well here is what I've been up to since September 9th. Hopping around on crutches and waiting for my Ortho doctor visit. I found out today that I broke my foot (in a hard to heal spot :O( no wonder I've been in so much pain for almost a month! The doctor looked at the X-ray, looked at my foot and then looked at me and said "You've been walking on this?" lol........yes, I have! lol. What else could I do? Sit and do nothing?

My dear husband painted my toes so that I could have pretty feet (ok, I'm not saying my feet are pretty enough to model sandals........lol) in my ugly blue cast, I wanted a purple cast, but they had run out of that color today. I go back at the end of the month for a recheck to see how it's healing. I'm not doing real well in the area of crutches, hubby keeps saying "Go, Go Gadget legs" lol.
Moe

Homeschooling The Fear Factor

Now I know that not everyone that reads my blog homeschools, some of you have thought about it though and are fearful. I came across this great blog post about fear and homeschooling. It's a good thing to have some fear, that way you will make a serious decision and not just jump right in. Home education is a lot to think about and a big task, but the out comes and rewards will last into Eternity.
http://teachingmy3.blogspot.com/2012/06/monsters-of-homeschooling-fear.html The post is entitled Monsters of Homeschooling: FEAR.

Be encouraged and not faint hearted.

Moe

Freebie Freebie Freebie

 


Found this awesome site today with tons of free printables for your household and homeschool. See what ya think.
http://www.ihomeschoolnetwork.com/free-household-organizational-printables/

Have a wonderful week!!

Moe

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